Wired Differently

Wired Differently

Author; SharonVerrett

Did you know men and women are wired differently? Do you ever wonder why the two can’t always see eye to eye? God designed us to be that way. Opposites at some point will attract, right?

We educate ourselves in many areas of life, but we rarely take the time to try to understand our spouses and their thinking process.

I know, you are thinking, well as soon as I think I have my wife understood she changes. That would be true, because we are emotional creatures and we are often affected by our surrounding and our hormones.

In order to have a peaceful relationship, it is good to be in tune to our emotions, however difficult that may be. Love covers a multitude of error.

I was scheduled for my first colonoscopy on last Thursday. I was way past due. Eight years to be exact. I am a formal medical person of twenty years. I know better, but I take decent care of me, was my reasoning and it was not a priority in my mind. I also know there are a lot of dead people who thought the same way. J “So how crazy was that thinking?” some may ask.

Nonetheless, I had a fear of being put asleep, but I digressed and submitted to the call or demand from my new primary physician. My point is I was still anxious up until that day, so I was a little unintentionally snappier than usual. I commend my Kevin for understanding and not following me up with arguing. It does take two to argue.

After the procedure, I was happy and back to myself. My emotions, from the surround stress of being put to sleep, were over.  I was mentally back in tack and we were the happy couple again, all because he understood me and the things that were emotionally surrounding me at that time.

There are many things that surround our emotions. We are moved by the feeling of being loved and the things that show us that we are loved.

When we receive flowers, a cooked meal, unsolicited cleaning or other thoughts of whatnots, it triggers our emotions, causing positive responses; something so simple to a man can mean so much to the woman. It gives and image to us that you care, because you thought of us. That may seem strange, but it is all about taking the time to understand.

It is my hope that as women, we never use our emotions as an excuse to be mean, but use knowledge as an ability to understand and recognize our emotional state, making an effort to evaluate our surrounding circumstances as we try and relate, why we are the way we are at the moment, and make an attempt to keep everything in tack

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I hope you enjoyed today’s read. In part II, tomorrow, we will talk a bit about the wiring of the man, how he too is designed by God, J but he thinks totally differently, because he is wired differently.

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